While you are a woman exactly who wants in control otherwise a good man just who loves to play a more using character, you’re curious-otherwise currently ending up involved in-female-added relationships.
What exactly is a lady-provided relationship, otherwise FLR?
A female-provided dating, otherwise FLR, are usually a variety of Sadomasochism dating ranging from a dominant girl and you may a submissive child. While the identity originated from inside the kink community, people now utilize the label “female-contributed dating” even more essentially to explain one matchmaking between one and you can good lady where the lady retains even more fuel versus man, if or not with regards to breadwinner status, decision-while making power, or perhaps the couple’s intimate vibrant.
“This is has many variations, since this is a broad umbrella name,” centered on intercourse instructor and you can elite dominatrix Lola Jean. “FLR might be people matchmaking that isn’t ‘male-provided.’ In most lenient style, [an enthusiastic FLR is] more of an equal-power otherwise varied-energy replace between lovers. With its so much more tall and maybe antique [form], FLR are a love where ladies, otherwise femme, is the choice-maker into other companion. This can be anything from its money to their clothes in order to even more menial jobs particularly errands.”
The less than personality could be employed in a keen FLR, regardless if never assume all must be introduce having a relationship to qualify FLR:
- The woman is the sole or first earnings earner throughout the dating.
- The person protects really otherwise all the residential commitments and child care.
- She’s the chief decision-originator regarding dating.ادامه خواندن